Does anyone else find absolute silence difficult to deal with? In particular difficult to sleep in complete silence?

I think it started from a young age, being obsessed with music. Falling asleep with music.

As an adult, I still struggle with this and need some form of audio to drift off, be it music or something else.

More recently, I find stand-up comedy works best - it’s light-hearted and doesn’t require too much thought.

  • watson387@sopuli.xyz
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    1 year ago

    I have tinnitus, so absolute silence is never enjoyable for me. Music works extremely well; I fall asleep with the tv on.

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      I Think I might too. Need to get checked. Always a low humming. Sometimes high pitch ringing. But I meant more of not being able to settle my mind.

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      When I read the title of the post, I immediately wondered if anybody else with tinnitus had commented yet.

      “Silence” sounds amazing, would love to try it some time 😅

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    As a teen, I needed complete silence/darkness to sleep well. Then I met my now-wife, who needed a TV on to sleep well.
    It took a while, but we eventually compromised on a fan for background noise.

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    I have tinnitus. Had it my whole life. I live with a fan running in every room except the kitchen and bathroom. They are on 24/7 365. The silence literally makes my head feel like it’s about to pop

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    I must have earplugs and an eyemask to sleep. Always wanted pitch black and complete silence since I was a child.

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    I would love absolute silence. I got Tinnitus in my right ear 24/7/365… It will probably never disappear… And I also sleep with a CPAP which makes annoying sounds when sleeping. So I would absolute silence.

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    Silence isn’t a thing.

    Sound of leaves rustling, the ocean, or even gentle wind? I sleep, no problem

    A house quietly creaking and my blood flowing?

    I’ve put on music or Netflix since childhood

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    Buy yourself a white noise machine. I’ve been using one for almost 10 years, it’s helped my sleep routine immensely. I prefer it to something with talking because the fluctuations of something like comedy would disrupt me. Also, I think that concentrating on something like comedy makes me want to watch it and I would woke up.

    The next thing is an eye mask. Even if your room is mostly dark, I’ve found it helps me to stay asleep.

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    I usually fall asleep to a podcast. One that is interesting, but not so interesting that it’ll keep me up. A history podcast or something like that.

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      I do this too. Unmade Podcast is my sleeping podcast. 2 dudes talking podcast. It’s a little hard without it.

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        I quite like We Have Ways podcast, although they never balance their mics so one of them ends up blasting my ears waking me up while you can’t hear the other one at low volume 😂

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    I fixed that problem…I never hear silence!

    All I hear is eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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    Try a fan. And this one’s weird, but I have an analog clock in my room and the rhythmic ticking helps me sleep.

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      I know were you are coming from and I know a few people who have a clock in the room and sleep… but I just can’t… the rhythmic ticking drives me crazy haha

      podcast or audio books are my go to - sometimes I’m stuck on the same chapter for weeks

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        I can’t handle the constant having to rewind and going wait did I already listen to this last night? that happens if I listen to podcasts or audiobooks to sleep.

        Maybe I should just find a podcast I don’t care about actually hearing everything in that I could use for sleep.