• Telorand
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      Plus, you’re not owed a date just because you think you otherwise deserve consideration. Superficial or not, people are entitled to decide what relationships they want to engage with upon whatever criteria they want.

      Might mean they miss out on certain experiences, but that’s not your problem.

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        Everyone has a right to choose what they want. Absolutely

        If this was a guy saying he only dates DD girls would he be a douche?

        Having a single physical trait as a deciding factor without considering anything else makes for a shallow person

        That is the point

        Guys that think they are owed something are wrong as well

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          Strongly disagree. I find any breast over the small end of average to be flat out gross. So I’m shallow? Won’t date anyone with a penis either, so I guess I’m a homophobe?

          So to be a decent person I must date people with a feature that turns me completely off? Can I date you to get started?

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            Missing the point. The joke is that there is an artificial cut off at 6 feet, or at DD breasts, or at A cup breasts. Whatever

            Clearly yes or no penis is not the same.

            Being 5’11’’, 3cm les than 6ft would not be gross

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            You’re allowed to choose your partner based on whatever criteria you want.

            Don’t be surprised when you find yourself with someone just as shallow as you are.

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    18 days ago

    i’ve heard women speak of the Sixes: 6ft, 6 figures, 6-pack abs, 6 inches.

    i’ve never heard a male speak if an equivalent list.

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    Meanwhile if I look like one of those great danes that thinks it’s a chihuahua in the lap of any man under 6 foot and few have considered that unthreatening.

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    17 days ago

    I’m 6’3" and feel an obligation to become extremely well built or risk being accused of wasting my good fortune.