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  • JackbyDev@programming.dev
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    I’m also non-straight but I don’t identify as LGBTQ (I literally had to look up the correct way to type that)

    If you identify as non-straight then you’re identifying as LGBTQ. Don’t get hung up on the specific letters in the acronym, that sort of changes from year to year. You can pretty much sum it up to literally mean anything that isn’t straight which is what you said you are.

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      If you identify as non-straight then you’re identifying as LGBTQ.

      No I don’t. That’s the point; if this is asked on a questionaire my answer will be no. It’s irrelevant if other people want to label me like that - I don’t.

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        You labeled yourself non-straight. That falls under LGBTQ.

        Edit: I’m not trying to force you to use the acronym, I’m just saying “non-straight” most definitely falls under it.

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        It’s irrelevant if other people want to label me like that

        Correct. You get to label yourself and no person on Earth has a right to comment on that. You’re choosing not to and it’s unclear why or to what end.

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          …it’s unclear why or to what end.

          The abbreviation in question has negative cannotations in my mind and thus I don’t want to be accociated with it. I prefer the term sexual minority if I absolutely need to be put into a category.

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            has negative cannotations in my mind

            I feel like you may have just demonstrated the importance of the study being reported here. The people responding affirmatively do not carry that burden.

            As a piece of advice: this is a “you” thing. Whatever you need to do to get there, learn to be ok with yourself and stop worrying about what others think of you.

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              My point is that people answer these kind of questionaires differently. Just like I may not check a box others might think I should have, some other person checks a box others might think they shouldn’t have. Just because one thinks of themselves as native american for example doesn’t mean others do. That nearly 30% LGBTQ rate indicates, to me atleast, that something like this is going on here aswell.

              I don’t consider myself to be especially worried about what other people think of me. I don’t know what makes you feel like I do.