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          I do, because as a kid I was treated very similarly simply because I was unlucky enough to have been born dark complected. When I tried to get help from teachers, my relatives used every trick in the book to try to have me committed as a kid or jailed as an adult to discredit and silence me. Just so they could keep drug dealing and keep their money. I actually and unironically have went through something very similar to you.

          What you went through is common believe it or not. You’re not alone.

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      You don’t deserve “healthy or positive”

      Your instance abides by and agrees with Lemmy’s general code of conduct. See here: https://join-lemmy.org/docs/code_of_conduct.html#moderation

      That means that, yes, I and everyone here deserves a healthy and positive environment for discourse. Your behavior and your comments, not just here but throughout, are erratic and problematic leading to incredibly hostile interactions. Even with people who are genuinely trying to listen to you and have a conversation with you even past the point where you’ve proven that impossible.

      Again, please seek help for the benefit of yourself and the people who have to be around you. Remember mental illness is not your fault, but it is your responsibility.

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          I don’t even know who you are. What does your existence mean to anyone when it only sends hate?

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                  Don’t try to put the responsibility for your maladjustment on everybody else. I shall now demonstrate the correct response to unreasonable assholes by blocking you. I would encourage you to do the same if you can’t engage in meaningful conversation beyond lashing out.

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              Like i said before. I don’t have the slightest clue who you are. If you are that sick of people treating you bad, then why are you even here arguing with people who don’t know you on how they did you dirty?
              Go touch some grass.

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          But if you punish us, wouldn’t that also amount to some form of abuse? And wouldn’t that lead to us ending up in a similar state as you punishing the next generation as well? This would go on forever. Is this what you want for future generations?

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              Isn’t that the same logic your parents and other people close to you have applied as well? What differentiates your punishment from theirs?

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                  I see. If their punishment had the purpose to disinform you and prevent your education, it had logic. The seemingly random methods were then part of a larger scheme. So they followed an agenda as well and probably were convinced that their way is the only true way and that what they do serves a greater good (to them).

                  Following that thought means that their view was just as subjective as yours. If you invert their goals and beliefs, you basically went from one extreme to another. I don’t think that this creates a balance or rights a wrong.

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              How are you punishing me exactly?
              I feel better now that i know i can cause you pain by merely existing.

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                  I am your pain. I am eternal. I will follow you until you forget. You only have one way to escape and that is forgiveness. Forgiveness to those you falsely accuse. Repent

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      I’m not narcissistic…You don’t deserve “healthy or positive…you have to be punished until you stop…your resistance to my parenting…

      Bro, really? You wonder why people are nasty to you. I try to love all humans, but you are making it hard, but here I go anyway: Others attitudes towards you starts with you. Try to change it. Not with hate, but with love. If a parent did parent “as you do”, they would be a literal abusive parent. If you are in a shitty situation, try to get out, but stop making the world a shittier place. I don’t want you to be or feel shitty, I really don’t. Try to find happiness friend. This is all the advice I have for you. Please, please take it.