BIGGER AND MORE PRIDEFUL THAN EVER BEFORE trans-ferret trans-hydra

  • BountifulEggnog [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    22 minutes ago
    dysphoria/gender envy

    I’ve really been wish I had more femme fat distribution, especially in the hips/stomach area. I’ve always hated my stomach for some unknown reason, but now I’m starting to realize I think I’m okay with my weight, it’s just that its concentrated in my stomach.

  • SnowySkyes [she/her]@hexbear.netOPM
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    WTF?! We’re at 871 comments?! I step away for one day and all you awesome folks just wildly pump our numbers. I love it! trans-ferret

    lol, make that 871 cause I accidentally double posted.

  • ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    late night book post

    I think I have ever successfully forced at gunpoint coerced by threat convinced an entire two people to read any of my particularly weird A Novels.

    The first one was this hillarious smalltown 20 year old cishet guy, and for whatever fucking reason the dude decided he was gonna read fucking Manhunt by Gretchen Felker Martin, which was such a bruh moment. I felt like you need the context of at least Infect Your Friends and Loved Ones to get it, but I also could not stop this guy reading it, I was so morbidly curious.

    Guy concluded that it was Misogynistic and had too much sex in it, which was a big lmao to me. I guess he read this 'cause it says it’s splatterpunk, and bro is big into S. Craig Zahler novels, but chat: Zahler writes books where “torture porn” is putting a live scorpion in a dude’s stomach. It’s entirely “woooooah bro!!!” spectacle, where Manhunt is an unflinching depiction of and engagement with extremely brutal trauma. A fuckin “check the cw’s” kinda book. He fuckin noped out at like 30% lmao.

    The other is that I forced my wife to read The Last Girl Scout by Natalie Ironside! That actually went acceptably, she kinda likes it, which is cool cause it’s a nifty little (750 pages or w/e) book. This is the only time a weird, freaky, horrifying “A Novel” rec has worked out for me; I can recommend books all day, I’m Not Bad at it, but this specific category of “weird” books makes people recoil, which is funny.

  • BountifulEggnog [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    7 hours ago

    A year ago I choose they/them pronouns with much hemming and hawing about if it was okay because I was totally cis. Eventually I settled on yes, but with a note in my bio that I was totally cishet. And uh, now here we are, in the biggest trans thread on lemmy.

  • ashinadash [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    7 hours ago

    I feel a little weird about terms like “girlkisser” or whatever now. Like yes, certainly, I love it when women crush but also uh, my wife, nonbinary goth from the void. I kinda feel like some of the gendered lesbiany terms don’t adequately summarise anymore. Which feels kinda weird, because I’ve already settled on busting the term “lesbian” backward to include all the people I might be attracted to who aren’t binary women. thonk-trans