• TraditionalMuslim
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    I don’t think you even read my reply based on how you’re responding here. I said incels are incels because of their personal experiences with women and how they’ve either been cheated on or just don’t know how to interact with women. Conservatism did not lead them to be incels. It’s the other way around.

    Also I’m not a bigot if being gay is a choice. There are no scientific papers that conclude whether being gay is a choice or something you are born with. The “Gay Gene” is a myth and has been debunked several times. It was their decision to be gay and I’m going to criticize it because it is immoral and harmful for society. I get my morals from Divine laws not man-made laws. If by the off-chance they are born with it, then at least keep it to yourself, why promote and publicize indecency?

    Funny you say I should step out of my bubble because unlike you, I’ve actually seen both sides of the argument. I’ve done the critical thinking and research which you refuse to do. If you step out of your bubble and fairly assess the arguments, you might learn something and reflect on why you believe what you believe instead of painting the “other” side like the boogieman.

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        The default is being straight. If you are not, then your personal experiences like trauma and abuse have led you to believe that you are not. Or you’ve been programmed from a young age to believe you aren’t just like these teachers in elementary schools telling kids to be ‘whatever they want’ not understanding that this will only confuse children rather than let them think for themselves and confide to their parents about this sensetive topic.

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            Huh? How did you arrive at that conclusion based on my reply? I explained how sexuality is a choice. What I mean by sexuality is anything that is not heterosexual. The default is that men are for women and women are for men. That is how human beings were created. Anything outside of this has to be evaluated and that person would need to seek help. Whether the person has to continue living with these desires or not, they are fully accountable if they act upon those desires.

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              No, you said it’s a choice, then said a bunch of stuff that wasn’t a person’s choice - just the way a person is.

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                You’re not understanding me. I’m saying that being heterosexual is something you are born with. Being homosexual, not so much.

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                  Wut. Why is one sexuality something you’re born with, but not the other?

                  Are you saying you could choose to be gay? If you wanted to, right now, you could be a gay man?

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                    Yes that is what I am saying.

                    Yes if someone chose to start endulging in homosexual activities because they were bored of straight sex or from watching too much porn, they did in fact choose to be gay.