• sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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    11 days ago

    No, children do not need to do labor to live. The goal here is to teach kids through work experience, meaning time management (juggle work, school, and play) and managing money.

    Here’s my personal experience:

    • mowed lawns around 14yo
    • did simple landscaping at 15yo
    • cleaned offices and had a programming internship at 16yo

    More than half of that money went to my school fund, and is a large part of why I didn’t need student loans for college. I also used it to buy things my parents wouldn’t get me, such as a gaming console.

    If we allow kids under 18 to work (and we should, with lots of limits and safeguards), it should have some clear restrictions:

    • none of the money is used for family expenses
    • parents can use a custodial account, but that can only be used to give the child spending money or saved until the child is 18yo (may be invested in something like a 529 or IRA as well for the child); every withdrawal is tracked by the custodian and subject to review
    • if the child raises complaints, work ends immediately; children may not be able to consent, but they can certainly opt out
    • at 16yo, the child gets to decide how to get paid (which account, etc)

    That should prevent most of the abuse since parents wouldn’t get any benefit from the labor. The only goal should be for the child’s benefit, not to somehow benefit the parents.

    The NHLP went too far, and were rightly called out for it.

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      11 days ago

      More than half of that money went to my school fund, and is a large part of why I didn’t need student loans for college.

      Why the fuck do you need a school fund and student loans in a developed society? There must be none of that, otherwise it is a shithole system of business leeches.

      Working for children must simply not be a thing, and kids should not be working to buy a gaming console. Instead, they should focus on studies and do whatever they want after 18. I will say that even 18 is too low, 21 should be the limit.

      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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        Why 21?

        And yes, I agree student debt shouldn’t be a thing, but the solution imo isn’t to make education free, but to make student loans dischargable in bankruptcy.

        kids should not be working to buy a gaming console

        Why not? It teaches them the value of labor, which is extremely useful in transitioning to adult life. I learned the value of hard work, and that has helped me immensely in my life. I don’t want to get into debt because I want my labor to mean more than a line item on a bank’s financial books. I understand the value of investing, because I want my money to work for me.

        I had access to other video games as a kid, but I wanted something specific and the condition was I had to earn it. I also wanted to drive a car, but I was responsible to pay for gas and thus needed a job. My parents paid my tuition, but I was reasonable to pay for my room and board. I wanted a cell phone, so I bought one with the money I earned. I got a credit card at 18 (parents co-signed) and a second in school, and never once paid interest and had a great credit score so I could buy a house earlier (bought at 25?). I got married before finishing school, at which point I took complete responsibility for paying my way through school.

        I worked my way through college, and I think that made me actually value that educational experience. I had a vested interest to get something out of it, and I was set up to succeed when I landed my own job because I already knew how to manage my finances. I learned to live frugally and not waste my money on nonsense, because I understood the work to get that money.

        So I absolutely will be providing my kids work experience, whether on the books or not (we have an allowance system at home based on chores). I think it’s more valuable to work outside the family, just because there’s that added level of accountability (Mom and Dad probably won’t fire you, but that other boss would). I’ve heard horror stories of parents stealing their kids’ money, so that’s where my focus is in terms of legislation.

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          11 days ago

          21 is an age where a person has had enough (three) years to understand the implications of being a legal adult and is closer to maturity. The ideal age for maturity is 27, if biology of the human brain is considered, but a person is quite functional by 20/21 as they are in university and have experienced the world outside home.

          The value of labour should not be learned by 15 year old kids doing it to buy a fucking PlayStation or Xbox or Steam Deck or Nintendo Switch. They should prioritise more important things in life like studying for university majors.

          • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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            11 days ago

            You do realize you can do both, no? Here’s what I did:

            • 2-year degree at the same time as high school graduation - took classes as the local community college instead of the high school
            • finish 4-years college without debt in an in-demand field
            • saved for and bought a house by 26 - I didn’t make a ton of money, but we were able to meet the average household income most of those years (we lived very frugally until our first was born)

            When I was working as a teen, my parents pushed me to save half of my money, and I was probably closer to 75% (after donating to my church). Here’s my rough income history as a teen:

            • 14 - ~$20/week in summers
            • 15 - $5/hr, 10-20 hours/week (landscaping) + $10-20/week mowing lawns and some random odd jobs (helped a neighbor rip out a tree stump) - made >$1k that summer; Xbox + TV cost $500-ish
            • 16-18 - $8/hr, ~2 hours/school day, 6-8 hours/day in summer break, $20/week mowing lawns, and $10/week cleaning an office; I spent very little, mostly just gas and a few video games; most went to my college fund

            I tracked my own hours and reported them to get paid. In fact, I taught myself to write in PHP to automate tracking my hours (built a crappy web app), and I took a Java class and taught myself C# to get that $8/hr job. All of that was done on my own, my parents didn’t push me at all, they just saw my hobbies and hooked me up with a family friend.

            From 16-18, I was at the local college, which meant harder classes, but fewer classes, so I only had ~3 hours of class time each day. I studied hard, so I usually got my homework finished before my friends got done with school. In the fall, I would play Varsity tennis at the high school, and work just before (I would do homework in the evening those days).

            By the time I went to college, I had a few thousand saved, which was enough to get me through my first year of college without working. From my second year on, I had:

            • $8.50/hr (like $1 over minimum) - custodian - 1 semester
            • $10.50/hr - IT tech support for the university - 1.5 years
            • $13/hr (got married this year) - programming internship - rest of college; I got a salary offer from that job after finishing school making ~$60k (forget exactly how much)

            My wife worked waiting tables until our first kid, which also helped. After a few years, we had saved enough for a down payment on a house (~$50k), and I had impeccable credit history (about 7 years of on-time payments).

            The only help I got from my parents was:

            • a crappy car - worth ~$1500
            • tuition paid - so equivalent to free college
            • help getting my first credit card (they cosigned)

            If I didn’t work as a kid, I wouldn’t have developed marketable skills, work ethic, or budgeting skills. So I’m going to be doing that for my kids if possible.

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              10 days ago

              Your ideology is trash, and nobody over the age of 23 takes you seriously and they never will.

              Including your family. They hate you.

              Even sadder that you don’t even seem to understand your own political ideology. How do you think child labor stops? You think the free market magically fixes it? Because I assure you that libertarians do not want regulations mandating that corporations cannot hire children. If you think that’s what libertarians believe, then I don’t know what to fucking tell you.