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  • Assuming a D&D 5e game, I load Kobold Fight Club and click until I find monsters I can build a little story around.

    A while back (including enemies from Tome of Beasts) I got Spawn of Akyishigal and Giant Ants, and after a few overland battles they found a beleaguered anthill.

    By the next session I had my dungeon made and some lore surrounding it.

    The giant anthill had carved its way into an ancient tomb of an orcish warlord who had managed to seal the Demon Lord of Cockroaches with her in an attempt at everlasting life. The actions the players take can result in her rising as a Mummy Lord or in Akyishigal being freed.

    All from going “Hey, these enemies work well together.”

    Here’s a link to it:

    The Mirrored Tomb of Yeskarra





  • My fighter against an assassin who we suspected killed an NPC in the first session.

    We are down in the mud, grappling. I fumbled my sword and he got me good (crit), leaving me quite vulnerable. The other party members were nearby but not in range.

    I pulled out a dagger and got a crit of my own, ending his life with less than 5 hp left of my own.

    Later that night I realized that dagger I’d killed him with was looted from the NPC’s pack. I’d gotten revenge on her behalf, using her own knife against her murderer.



  • “Save it for Tuesday” is a shit attitude in my opinion. A little more constructive would be “I’m glad you opened up to me and here’s what I think but that also sounds like something to discuss with your therapist.”

    I can’t offer any other good advice as I’ve only seen a therapist once but I’d assume it’s possible to get as much as you can out of one person and then find someone else who can help you grow further.

    (Just realized this is the bipolar group and I’m depressive and anxious but not bipolar, fwiw.)












  • All you can reasonably do is help him get in touch with resources to help him recover.

    And then, if he gets sober and starts to get his affairs in order, you can be supportive.

    But his multiple severe challenges coupled with the fact that he has a family who could be supportive of him if he had been supportive of them lead me to warn you to limit your exposure here.

    It’s too much and you’ll get overwhelmed, even if he’s able to cope.

    But being a supportive friend, knowing he has someone in his life who hasn’t fully written him off can still be valuable.