If you found yourself in a group sex play session with both males and females, how would you react if another male asked if they could perform oral on you?

  • Bizcotto@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    I would accept, but only if there’s a girl actively participating or watching, encouraging us. Just male on male is not for me, but if I’m “convinced” into it by a girl, then it becomes very arousing

  • Rumbelows@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Guess I’d probably roll with it. I’ve had a guy blow me before now though, and it did not really work for me. Prolly need to be Bi to get into it. idk

  • Buelldozer@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Sexuality exists on a spectrum and most people are far more open to exploration than they will openly, and often even privately, admit. Truth is that under the correct circumstances most people will play the receiver role in an oral only homosexual encounter at least once just to try it.

    I might say yes and I might say no, depends on what my plans are for the event and where we’re at in the order of events.

  • Green pelican@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    The chances of me getting into group play are extremely low, mostly because I wouldn’t want to participate. But while I’m there anyway, why not let him try?

  • invaderfnord@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    Would really depend on how I was feeling in the situation. The worst they’d get would be a polite “No thank you.”

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Well, since I’m not into group play to begin with, that would mean I was high on something, so there’s no telling how it might go lol.

    But I’ve been offered head by guys before. I bounced at some gay bars back in my twenties and early thirties. Getting offers of head, or even ass, was not a rare occurrence. I’m a big, bear looking guy. The twinks in particular liked my looks, and I was always chill about being hit on or asked out, so some of them would try a few times before giving up

    It was rather good for my self esteem tbh. I’ve said before that if I were gay, I would have fucked myself into an early grave if I had taken even half of those offers lol. My poor heart would have given out.

    So, I know that my response would be chill, no matter how high or whatever.

    All of which reminds me of a story. Back about that time, my best friend (and roommate, we lived together from right after high school until about 10 years ago when he got married) went through a bit of a player stage. He’d bring home guys from clubs, or grindr, or whatever.

    There was this one guy though, that was a semi regular fuck buddy of his that was persistent enough to annoy me. He’d come through the living room, and plop down on my lap and grind, suggesting I should join them. Not the first visit, or he wouldn’t have been allowed back (my bff knows I don’t like being touched by strangers).

    One time, he made me spill my damn coffee on the couch, so I picked him up and said, “fine, let’s do this, but you’re getting fisted”. Then I sat him down and held up my fist. I wear xxl gloves and can palm a basketball. Poor dude just got pale and his eyes were flicking back and forth between me and my bro, then asked if I was serious.

    I gave him my best psycho face with a grin and told him there was only one way to find out. He declined my offer and never suggested it again lol.

    Nice dude though! Don’t let that one story make him seem like a jerk, he wasn’t being predatory, and he was super great to talk to once he got the silly pounded out of his ass by my friend.

  • throwwy0082@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    I had a GF once that was into seeing me with another guy. We never explored that but the idea turned her on. Maybe if all the circumstances were perfect and the girl I was with was getting something out of it I’d give it a go, but I don’t think it’s for me.

  • Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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    1 year ago

    I guess I’m with a previous commenter. if there were females watching or even assisting I would try it. It would be sort of an experiment to see if something is true. You would think that a male knows better how to handle a penis since he has one … just as you would presume that a woman would know better how to stimulate a vagina