• whotookkarl@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    65
    ·
    4 months ago

    There’s a little trick my parents passed down to me whenever I asked them what a word meant or how to do something when I was a kid, “look it up yourself”. Look up the word in the dictionary, learn how to learn how to do things, and then when you get stuck ask for help graciously. Self reliance isn’t something that just happens, it takes effort and often failure.

    • Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      22
      ·
      4 months ago

      It’s a great learning technique. My family and girlfriend always say I’m so smart cause I know a lot. I don’t think I’m that smart I just always take that extra step to Google something if I have any questions. Doesn’t matter how small or unimportant it may seem, you never know what sort of rabbit hole you’ll fall down and how much you’ll learn because of it.