Edit: “getting closer to marriage” is about the whole journey starting from being completely single
Edit: if this shower thought is too confusing to be useful to you, then here is a quote that gives some of the same guidance, is simpler, less philosophical, but less broad: “Don’t waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come” - Mario Quintana
Me, a divorced person:![](https://reddthat.com/pictrs/image/fdf9922b-683e-46f3-8525-655a54931c3b.jpeg)