I largely agree but my only hesitation is ive seen lots of examples lately on the shitty bird app of trans women and other femme presenting people being accused of “self-fetishizing” and thereby damaging the rest of the community for totally innocuous things. Or for posting sexy selfies or for being sex workers.
Things like PhilosphyTube posting an old screenshot of her character from some video game in some vaguely fetishistic costume and saying she should have known at the time she was trans, and people shitting on her until she deleted it because that was apparently like playing into stereotypes and shit.
That… uh… that bothers me that people will shit on innocuous forms of self expression and self exploration like that.
God I fucking love that shit