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Cake day: September 12th, 2023

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  • This isn’t as crazy as it seems. In some bread and cake recipes, you can easily replace some of the oil with applesauce and have a successful bake. I’ve done this with muffins and banana bread to great success.

    They’re still being foolish as you need some fat for most bakes to work and using apple sauce introduces more fiber, protein and water instead of fat, but it’s not a totally baseless substitution.






  • I’m a man, I’m 5’5" and I’m far beyond caring about my height. It bothered me in high school but I found out shortly after it really doesn’t matter that much if you carry yourself confidently.

    That said, I’ve seen a number of other cis men find confidence in themselves by using short king self referentially and hearing people they want to date celebrate “short kings”, so it seems to be a useful term. I’ve also seen a number of trans men find it to be a confidence boosting term, combating the dysmorphia of their perceived height deficiency.

    I’ll revel in such things with my friends for laughs, but, ultimately, it doesn’t do much for me, but I like seeing what it’s done for others.








  • From how I understand it, you dream every night as your body enters REM sleep, but you often don’t remember dreams. You can try and train yourself to better recall your dreams and in doing so you may find that you “dream more often”.

    I’d say I have weeks where I remember my dreams, sometimes multiple, every night, and other times where I’ll go a week or more without recalling any. It varies on a lot of things. In particular, I’ll find if I stop smoking weed for about 4 or more days, I’ll start remembering dreams vividly and frequently, but that’ll lessen over 2 weeks.


  • I can relate with that. Most of my life I’ve thought I don’t want kids, but there are moments where I feel otherwise and I ultimately come to a similar conclusion.

    That said, I think it’s reasonable to want experience more of life while you’re young and wait to have children. Settling down with one person is a big step and I think having a variety of dating experiences better prepares you for making that decision.

    Edit: tho I think you’re right in your last paragraph when you say you should have added an lol or something else to indicate you weren’t being serious. It can be tricky to correctly interpret intonation over text, but, hey, every days a school day and maybe you two can reconnect in the future if you’re still interested.