LanyrdSkynrd [he/him]

Cracker-ass drunk loser who forgot he added this bio while shidding out his doodoo ass

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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • Say those 4 reasons to him and be firm in your decision. Do exactly what he’s doing to you in forcefully saying you ARE going.

    When my father was near the end of his life, he was like that. Using the prospect of his dying to kind of try to guilt me into committing more than I was willing to. He was a bit of a prick and would take offense if I wasn’t careful in how I turned him down. When I was younger I didn’t give a shit and let him be angry, but I didn’t want to be on bad terms with him because it was clear he was dying.

    Of course you don’t owe anyone any explanation and it would be perfectly reasonable to just say no and leave it at that. But I think you can turn him down in a way that preserves your relationship, if that’s what you want.

    Start off by telling him that you’ve thought about it but you aren’t going. He’ll want to know why, respond with a reason he cannot counter argue. For example if you start with the concern about the cost, he could counter by saying, “I’ll help you pay”.

    You don’t want to let it turn to a debate or argument, so if he tries to, don’t engage. Just say you’re sorry but you’ve already decided.

    If he tries to guilt you, call him out on it.



  • I did home renovation work for like 8 months. Some of the people in the crew practically destroyed their bodies doing that work for 20+ years. One of the drywall guys would have to use his left hand to loosen his right’s grip on the knife because it would get locked up. There was another guy that was maybe 45-55 that walked hunched over like a 90 year old man.

    I actually liked the work compared to other jobs I’d had, but the “work through the pain” culture was so toxic. Everyone would act like working hurt was both mandatory and something to be admired.

    It’s fine to be proud of being a hard worker, but being proud of destroying your body for a boss that wouldn’t give a shit if you died is sad.





  • dean-neutral

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    Forgive this rambling explanation, I haven’t deeply explored my feelings on this.

    I always feel a little weird giving my honest response to this question because I feel like I’m taking something away from trans people.

    I don’t identify with my birth assigned gender, but I do generally conform to it in dress and appearance and don’t care to change that. I don’t feel like I’m any gender at all(is that agender?). I don’t ever feel gender dysphoria and don’t really think about my gender identity often. I do sometimes feel pressure to conform to my birth gender in behavior, and that really bothers me because that’s the aspect of gender I don’t identify with. When I was younger I always felt like I was performing my assigned gender, and as an older person I’m glad I’m mostly free of that.

    I think that makes me trans, but I’m not sure.




  • I’m pretty skeptical of the value of these LLMs, but Google’s isn’t even good enough to call it half baked…

    These models are ultimately crap in my opinion. They’re not optimizing for intelligence or correct answers, they’re optimizing for seeming correct and intelligent. All the feedback they get from users is uninformed, you only ask an LLM what you don’t know.

    I used to think these tech companies knew what they were doing, at least somewhat. It’s just a bunch of business dipshits running from fad to fad burning tons of money until they fall backwards into a business. Then they monopolize it and enshittify it.


  • If you go the VPN route make sure you do a leak test(https://ipleak.net/) before you start downloading stuff. If you pass those tests you’re safe.

    You can definitely get PSX games from torrent sites, I just checked 1337.to and they’ve got a ton.

    Real-debrid is cheaper and easier to setup safely for a beginner. It’s basically just a service that downloads torrents(and those weird paid download sites like nitro upload) for you. You submit the torrent file or magnet link to their website and it gives you a direct download link. Since you aren’t sharing pirated files with anyone, there’s no chance of getting copyright warnings. There are also a bunch of streaming apps(stremio is the best) that work with real-debrid to give you a Netflix like experience for pirated movies/TV with little effort.




  • I was arguing with someone in Tiktok comments about this. They were saying I want gay people to die because I don’t support Biden. Later in the argument I asked what Biden has done to protect gay people and they said something like, “He can’t do anything because of Congress and the Supreme Court”.

    I’m astounded by these people who believe voting is the only thing we can do to affect our government, while simultaneously believing that you automatically need to give that vote to a party that doesn’t do anything for you.