My first account on the fediverse was on Beehaw and I was happy with it, but defederating from two of the largest instances gave me a reason to find a new instance. Personally I understand and respect the decision -that is the point of the fediverse afterall.
They had a lot of good communities that will not be cut off from the fastest growing instances which will make things tough to rebuild I think.
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There should be an option to make another instance “read-only”. Example- people from lemmy.world can view/subscribe to beehaw communities but can’t vote/comment (and vice versa). That would have been slightly better.