Hi all, just a brief meta post to see if there is something that needs changing/improving in the community. Contributions have been rather… lacking… and I’m wondering if it’s that the current content isn’t appealing or something else? Happy for suggestions Fox

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    10 months ago

    Thanks for all your great work, @SneakyFox! I feel like contributions are down across this whole instance of late. I’ve noticed it on other communities I subscribe to. So, first and foremost, I think it’s more an instance issue versus a c/spanking issue. Second, you are kind of competing with c/domesticdiscipline, which has a very active mod. There’s so much quiet on Lemmy, I think many users tend to go where the crowds are versus help prop up quiet communities - but that’s speculative. Finally, I posted a great ‘overcoming my internalized stigma about spanking fetish’ article on c/domesticdiscipline recently, versus your community - which was my first choice based on content relevance, because your sidebar didn’t suggest that non-image posts are welcome here. You could revise the sidebar submission guidelines around that. I’m also not purely interested in M spanking F scenes. The c/domesticdiscipline sidebar mentions it’s LGBTQ+ inclusive, which is very attractive to me as a contributor and lurker. I hope some of that is helpful :P

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      10 months ago

      Hi, thanks for the detailed response! I do agree that the community seems to be competing with c/domesticdiscipline and their admin who is very active and knowlegable from the look of things, we did briefly discuss working together at some point. I feel this community is more specific than c/domesticdiscipline, though I admit I do not have a clear plan for what I want to do here going forward.

      Regarding the sidebar, yes I agree that I need to update and work on that. Any discussion relating to spanking (though ofc not against minors) is welcome and discussions/questions should be encouraged. Il have a think on what I can do to try and encourage these types of posts, and if you have any suggestions for changes/additions I would love to hear what you think. I mainly discuss spanking content on discord, using posts and communities is rather new for me.

      LGBTQIA+…wow Im not sure how I overlooked that, for context im Ace, poly and am supporting my partner while they transition. No sort of discrimination or transphobia is going to be accepted here. Il write a new sidebar to make these points clear and hopefully show that I intend this to be a safe community.

      The community is heavily m/f and f/f leaning, that’s just down to what my primary tastes are honestly. x/m is not restricted, neither is any combination of gender. A new sidebar will hopefully make this clear.

      Thank you for your thoughts btw! Its really nice for you to put so much effort into helping me here

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      10 months ago

      Fair enough, was curious if people actually liked the posts overall. Nothing wrong with lurking, though throwing an upvote every once in a while to show you like the content is nice for motivation.