[Update] please note that this community is no longer restricted to Male chastity, and now is open to all. The prior narrow focus on males that was in the sidebar before was an oversight and has been removed.


Every submissive has an unique original story behind their consent, right?

I (and I’m very sure others too) am very interested in how you “discovered” chastity ( I’m sure it wasn’t taught as part of sex-ed classes 😉), why you want/agreed to be caged, what satisfaction (sexual or otherwise) you are getting, etc…

Please share your origin story, either by replying to this as comment, or starting up your own new thread. Free form, no judgements, just simply sharing.

The image in post is my collection of cages - my first one on the left was acquired a little over two years ago.

I’ll be glad to my own story in comments later if you are interested.

I’m thinking a corresponding thread for Tops and Doms/Dommes could work too…

  • Thisisdefinitelynot@lemmynsfw.com
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    10 months ago

    I first found out about chastity watching femdom Joi videos. I liked the idea of not being in control of my orgasms or if I’m even allowed to have an erection so I ordered a cage.

    I’ve been doing this on my own (no partner or dom) and the constant denial of pleasure makes for a better orgasm when I do allow myself one. I’ve been keeping a schedule of one per week and staying caged the rest of the time (only when at home, haven’t had the confidence to wear a cage to work yet but I’d like to do it soon).

    Ultimate goal is to find a dom to use and control me.